Emily’s Story: An awesome mom raises an awesome daughter

I’m really only sharing this story for two reasons:

1. I said nothing at the time and venting about it here with be something of a catharsis.

2. My mom is an old-school feminist. For context, she joined the boy’s track team back in the day–despite hearty protests by parents and staff–in order to force the school system to instate female sports teams. In other words, my mom is awesome and I want to express why.

My home town is a pretty nice area, but it’s also the hub of a lot of tourist activity. My basic rule is to avoid downtown at all costs because while the locals are typically upstanding folk, the tourists we attract are usually… well…

My mom and I stopped off at a gas station the other day on our way to go shopping and when we were returning to our car we saw that a van of at least four guys had parked beside us.

I’ve had so many experiences with cat-callers that I was filled with dread at the very idea of walking by. The driver even had his door opened, blocking my way to the passenger door. “Oh great,” I thought. “Here we go.”

But before I even got close, he pulled his door closed and for a brief moment hope filled me. Perhaps this was not going to be yet another story I’d share with my friends to the tune of “Why in God’s name do men behave like–”

“HEY BABY! WHOOO!”

Or not.

And it was not simply one of them, but all of them howling and shouting and trying to get my attention.

I ignored them, got in the car, and pulled the door shut.

But my Mom? She didn’t say anything. She never has to. She simply gave them one look–a look capable of melting steel–and IMMEDIATELY the abuse stopped. The driver even began to wave his hands in a way that highly resembled someone pleading to not be shot.

This is not the first time my mom has put an end to abuse without saying a single word. She is only 5’2 and 100lbs, but if you holla at her daughter, she will rock you with just one look.

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  1. Mary says:

    I just have to say, GO MOMS!! I know the steel-melting look all too well, having received it as a kid a few times… I feel like I’ve mastered this look pretty well myself. I haven’t used it for myself, but for a friend actually. I was at lunch with an openly gay male friend when a group of “jocks” and their girlfriends (!) started making extremely inappropriate comments towards my friend. He said just ignore them, but I turned around and melted them to their seats. When they immediately stopped all he could do was laugh and say “oh my god you looked exactly like my mother”. So while I may not be the quickest at come-backs, I take pride knowing that my mom taught me the eyes of death, and I’m not afraid to use them!

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