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#Metoo. Obviously. Every post I see from a woman with this hashtag says something to the effect of, “Helloooo has no one been paying attention? Of course me too.”  But what’s interesting is no one seems the least bit surprised. So where do we go from here? When the Me Too hashtag came out, I immediately … Continued

Resisting Harassment

I’m waiting for the bus. Old guy walks by, says hi, so I say hi. This is what I’ve decided to do. They get a polite greeting, a chance to prove they are not actually harassing me. I’ve been wrong before. He says I’m “so cute.” (You know what? I AM. so there.) I said, … Continued

20 Incidents of Harassment

I am now retired. I can count more than 20 incidents of sexual aggression in my life. They left me terrified and disempowered. It has effected my life. For some reason I was always unable to tell anyone. Now I begin to feel that shame falling away. The disgust, the isolation, the revulsion, maybe now … Continued


One day I was walking on street an old man touched my ass I hold his hand and he ran away i shouted at him fuck you.


Construction workers yelled at me DAMN, HOT DAMN as I was jogging. On the way back I had to pass them again and I used the other side of the street, they still yelled at me. Literally such a cliche situation. I wish I could figure out their employer, I’d be complaining to their boss.


Same week, 2 different days: – on corner of my street, late at night returning home by myself. 2 men standing in doorway decide to say “good evening”. I give light nod and keep walking, never stopping. They respond: hey good evening means nothing, why don’t you reply back, it’s rude not to reply back. … Continued


Arrived in Brussels 24h ago. Went to a bistro to get something to eat. Two guys at the bar stare at me. “Russian” they say. I continue to stare ahead, no eye contact. “Hey, you are Russian. Da. Da” I throw an angry look. “Do you want a beer, Russian girl?” Silence from my side. … Continued


Un hombre en un puesto de hamburguesas comenzó a decirle a su amigo Uff men esa si esta buena señalandome y mirandome de manera lasciva, no reaccione y solo puse mala cara alejandome rápidamente.


I was followed and harassed by a man trying to engage me in an argument, then when i tried to walk away he began filming me on his phone and saying i was harassing him. While he pushed me constantly and pursued me, he told me he could edit his film and make me look … Continued