Some random guys shouted “man-woman” several times at me in a crowd. One pushed me from behind to make me move forward while commenting “no homo”.
At first, I was very sad and upset and I let them define my worth. I was not able to stand up for myself because I was ashamed. Now I want people to know that if something like this or else is said about them, it doesn’t define their worth. Rather it says something about the character of the bullies. Now I know this too. Every human being is wonderful the way they are and not looking like a certain ideal, some people want you to look like, doesn’t make you less worthy.
I learned that I am allowed to wear my hair as short as I want and dress the way I feel the most comfortable in. I hope someone can relate to this and that maybe this makes you feel better about yourself. =)