HOLLA ON THE GO: I was approached by a man…

I was approached by a man while sitting with headphones in on the train. The conversation went as follows “hello”, “you are beautiful”, “you really turn me on”, “I just like to have fun”. He then proceeded to sit down next to me and talk at me. Finally, he got off at the same station as me before getting back onto the train after I refused to give him my number and join him for a meal.

I feel violated, uncomfortable in my own skin, and like it was my fault. What was it about me that made him feel comfortable telling me that he got hard just looking at me?