Bouncer to the Rescue
So this guy raped my friend. After that, he refused to leave them (my friend) alone and also was making a number of other gender-nonconforming, AFAB (assigned female at birth) people in my community uncomfortable with his attentions.
Rapist dude (a cisgender guy) showed up at a queer women’s dance party that I was at with my friend. I asked them how I could help. After checking in with them, I talked to a bouncer about what was going on. I was really freaked out and wound up crying in front of this stranger, but I know I did the right thing by sticking up for my friend.