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Women’s History Month: telling our own.

BY EMILY MAY AND SAM CARTER

March is Women’s history month, and as we celebrate the incredible strides that women have made throughout history, we also wanted to take a moment to document our own history. Some of it you may know, some of it you may not.  In any case, we wanted to take a moment to write it in our own words. This is the first of  seven posts that we’ll release over the next week. The following six profile posts will profile different lesson that we’ve learned along the way. We hope you’ll give us your feedback on our journey, and tell us what we’ve done right and wrong along the way. Our history is in progress, and with your help and support, we can make a better future for people impacted by street harassment. 

We were a group of seven friends, helping each other get through this tough city-workaday world in daily free-wheeling conversations. Gender was a particularly rich theme. We were three men and four women, all a bit queer, and as we talked about our lives, neighborhoods, commutes to work, the parks and cafes we frequented, something emerged; the women of our group had a vastly different set of experiences in public space from the men, the women enduring a constant barrage of foul comments, violations of personal space, and groping from strangers on the subway and the streets of the city.

For the men, hearing these stories from was eye-opening as they suddenly understood our city of New York as actually being two cities—one as experienced by women, the other by men.  And this kind of commonplace inequality was shaking..

On August 23, 2005, a young woman named Thao Nguyen was riding the R train.  She looked up to find a man sitting across from her staring. The man started to masturbate.  At this point, Thao did not avert her eyes or bury herself in a book.  She did not get up and leave the train car.  Instead, she took out her cell phone, and took a photo of the man.  And when she got off the train, she tried to report the incident. In her words:

Thao took a bold step.  After trying to report the incident, she shared her story on flickr, where it quickly went viral.  Gothamist picked it up first, then the  New York Daily News, which ran the photo on the front page of their tabloid.

It was one of those stories that New Yorkers were all buzzing about. Gothamist got flooded with comments. It felt like everyone either had a similar story of public masturbation, or they knew someone who did. Women came forward and recognized the man in Thao’s photo. Eventually, the subject of Thao’s snap turned himself in to the police.
Amongst ourselves, we picked apart what had happened.  Essentially, Thao had taken an action against her harasser using a digital tool that we all carry in our pockets, and then shared it with her broader community.  It had sparked public debate.  As we went through the timeline of the media story, we found ourselves revisiting familiar ground: the use of all this new personal technology, the power of the Internet and the emerging social media, the rise of blogs, and of course, gender.

And it was then that we realized that it was completely within our power to keep this conversation alive in New York City.  That we could start a new site, dedicated to sharing the kind of photos and stories that Thao Nguyen had, and make it open to everyone in New York.
We got to work.

We quickly identified the work to be done.  Some of us had set up websites and registered domains before, some were good with design, some with marketing. Others had legal expertise and could put together a basic framework for the project.We settled on the name Hollaback NYC.
On October 3, 2005, at 12:38 PM, we put up our first post:

First Post!

Here’s the skinny–next time you’re out and about and some cocky ass on a power trip whistles, hoots, or hollas–Just Holla back! Whip out your digicam, cameraphone, 35mm, (or sketchpad), and email us the photo. We’ll post their ugly face for the whole world to see. If you can’t pull out a camera, or you don’t have one on you, just send us a story and we’ll post that too.

We began to populate the site by soliciting stories from each other—and our friends.  Here’s Emily’s first Hollaback from October 11, 2005 at 3:54pm:

“Trudging home from the subway I hear the words “beautiful mommy” murmered. I look up to find a man (the one on the left) not staring into my eyes but rather sneering at my tits. I felt like poo, and it took all my willpower to grab my camera and run down the street after him to get this shot. A little scared, and very shaken, I scurried home holding my camera like radioactive material.”

 

We pissed people off.
The photos got a lot of attention – and a lot of controversy – to the site.   Our cell phone cameras became a cry of resistance. This was of course very scary for folks.  Changing the power structures usually is.  We got hate mail and criticism up the wazoo. The most common critique was “what if she’s lying?” This critique was about more than our project.  If you watch the news, you’ll be hard pressed to find coverage of a rape case that didn’t question victim’s integrity – either because of her short skirt, her dark skin, or failure to carry boyfriend-on-arm at all hours of the night. The media makes it sound like women are just running amok, making up stories about sexual assault for shits and giggles.

This is, of course, factually untrue. According to the FBI, only 3% of rape reports are “false.” But the fear of being dragged through the mud by the media, a courtroom, the world, makes rape victims skittish about coming forward. According to the American Medical Association, it’s the most “the most under-reported violent crime.”

Street harassment is on the spectrum of gender-based violence. It’s on the lower end of the spectrum, but it’s important to note because people bring the same shit to the party.  Victims of street harassment are seen as liars, and unsurprisingly, this has a hushing effect on victims.  Being able to tell your story anonymously — with no risk of public shaming — was revolutionary. And with each picture of a blurry sidewalk, a picture of gold cowboy boots being worn during the incident, or the harasser himself — the stories told on the site brought exposure into an otherwise unspoken part of our daily lives.

 

With success came failure.

Over the next five years, the stories kept coming and interest in Hollaback! grew. We wrote op-eds, spoke at universities, spray painted t-shirts, and designed tote bags. We even successfully got anti-harassment ads in the New York City subways in coordination with New Yorkers for Safe Transit, a coalition we co-founded in 2008. Our work was featured by Good Morning America, NPR, CNN, and many many others.  By our count, we’d appeared in press articles over 450 times by 2010.

With international press came international interest.  We started to receive posts from outside the United States, and some of our allies suggested that Hollaback! become the “Craigslist of street harassment” and post stories from around the world. We discussed it, but deep in our hearts, we knew that although street harassment is a global issue, the power of our project lies in local leadership.

 

Building the movement.

In the words of Gloria Steinum, “movements start by people telling their stories, and they succeed when power dynamics change.”  This draws a distinction with nonprofits: movements aren’t fueled by people who are paid to do the work.  They are powered by people who recognize injustice and are motivated to work for change. So we struck out on our own.  We tried to build a nonprofit that looked like a movement.

Along the way, we made a bunch of mistakes, and learned a few new things.

Stay tuned for tomorrow’s post on what we learned!

 

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HOLLA ON THE GO: it isn’t chemistry.

My chemistry teacher told me my entire bra was showing. Who is he to be looking at my chest?

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HOLLA ON THE GO: Running *away* from you.

I was on a run when a group of men I passed started shouting at me. One began to run along with me saying things like “we running back to your place? Where you going baby? I’m gonna run with you.” I sped up and he kept with me. I finally said “you can’t keep up” and he finally stopped.

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HOLLAWho? Meet Chandigarh.

Meet Rubina Singh, site leader in Chandigarh, India.

Interview conducted by Rita Beth.

 

When did you start your holla?
August 2011

Why did you start a HOLLA and what does Hollaback! mean to you?
Street harassment had become a daily reality for me. I was tired and had no idea what to do about it. One incident in particular, triggered me to find a more long-term solution. I was followed home by some men in a car and it scared me to death. I wasn’t sure what would happen and I just froze. I didn’t do anything then but it really got to me and I knew I had to do something. That was when I found out about Hollaback!. I wrote about it once here.

HOLLAfact about your city:
It’s the greenest city in India.

Say you’re Queen for the day. What would you do to end street harassment?
Engage men and women in conversation about gender roles and gender based violence including street harassment.

What was your first experience with street harassment?
My first experience was when I was 16 years old. I was walking from home to a market and a group of boys started following me and making lewd comments. I entered a shop where I knew the owner and stayed there until I saw them leave.

What’s your signature Hollaback?
I usually keep Hollaback! Pamphlets with me and just hand them over to people harassing me or someone else around me. It’s a great way to start talking about the issue.

Define your style:
My superheroine power is positivity. I try to look at the brighter side of things and make the best out of what is available.

What is your proudest holla moment so far?
We recently conducted a campaign, The Pledge Project, where we encouraged people in the city to pledge that they would speak up against street harassment in their city. We collected over 500 pledges and hopefully made a contribution in ending street harassment in the city.

What do you do when you’re not holla’ng?
Sleeping! Other than that, I work full time with the Commonwealth Youth Programme, Asia Centre based in Chandigarh. We work primarily in the field of youth development.

If you could leave the world one piece of advice, what would it be?
Keep calm and Hollaback!

What are you excited about in 2013?
Queer Pride! Chandigarh is about to see its first ever pride march on the 15th of March. It’s being led by an HIV/AIDS awareness organization, Saksham Trust CBO and Hollaback! Chandigarh is supporting it.
We’re also hoping to collaborate with the city police (they’ve been hugely supportive) to conduct safety audits in the city.

What inspires you?
Learning from the awesome Hollaback! Family. Everyone is amazing beyond amazing and it’s a daily inspiration to see the great work they’re doing and how fantastic they are as people.

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Week In Our Shoes: 80% of young people have been harassed in Edinburgh, survey says.

Hey Hollas!

We are less than a month away from Anti-Street Harassment Week, April 7-13. Mark your calendars!

Here’s what we’ve been up to this week:

  • ADVOCACY! We met with Councilmembers Levin, Palma, Lander, and Ferreras and their staffers to discuss our legislative agenda in New York City for FY13-14.
  • LEADERSHIP! We met with Hollaback Richmond, Montreal and Melbourne — and did a webinar on safety audits for our site leaders on Wednesday.
  • PARTNERS! We met with our partners Do Something, WAM!, Take the Lead, Exhale, New Yorkers for Safe Transit, Campus Pride, and Vitamin W to discuss taking the movement to the next level.
  • PRESS! International Business Times heralds Hollaback! for our mobile app that allows people to report street harassment directly to the authorities. The NYU Washington Square News covered awesome Brooklyn-based anti-street harassment artist Tatyana Fazlalizadeh. The article also talks about Hollaback! and all the fantabulous things we do to raise awareness about street harassment. BOOYEAH.
  • MEMBERS! Your scarves are in the mail!
by Tatyana Fazlalizadeh

By Tatyana Fazlalizadeh

Now, without further ado, let’s talk about how y’all rocked this week:

  • Hollaback! Melbourne was featured in The Age following a widely condemned bar assault.  The public outcry that rose out of Melbourne following the incident was supported by Hollaback! Melbourne. On tuesday night, site leader Alanna was on ABC speaking about the effect of the recent and devastating rape and murder of Jill Meagher upon Melbourne women. You can listen here.
  • Hollaback! Buenos Aires posted about last week’s Festival Against Lesbian Phobia. The site is raising awareness about the death of Natalia “Pepa” Gaitan, a lesbian who  was killed a year ago by her partner’s angry father. This is serious business. Thanks for holla’ing back, Buenos Aires!
  • Hollaback! Brussels has a guest blogger this week. Emilie Van Limbergen writes on women’s and human rights. Check out her post on Hollback Brussels’ site!
  • Hollaback! Gent engaged in their first public debate after being invited to participate in Evanement for International Women’s Day last week. Check out their site for some great pictures and coverage of the event.
  • Hollaback! Ottawa is working hard to shed light on patterns of harassment in public transit. Site leader Julie Lalonde and Hollaback! Ottawa was featured in The Ottawa Citizen and CBC Ottawa’s radio show ‘All in a Day’. Y’all are fearless! The group recently connected with WISE, Women’s Initiatives for Safer Environments, and are in the planning stages of an Open Forum on Harassment in Transit. Way to go hollas!
  • Hollaback! Winnipeg has just come out with their Winnipeg State of the Streets report. In the report, they site findings from the street harassment survey they spearheaded (the city’s first!) and the meaning of some upsetting figures.
  • Hollaback! UK sites posted a joint statement of support this week for National Union of Students’ recent research on Lad Culture and its relation to the prevalence of sexual harassment and violence. This is a great report, definitely check it out.
  • Hollaback! Edinburgh released a street harassment report stating that over 80% of young people who took the survey have experienced some form of street harassment in Edinburgh. Read Edinburgh’s follow up statement “What we need is a culture change.”
  • Hollaback! London spoke this Wednesday at Enfield Labour Women’s Forum alongside Joanne McCartney (overseeing the Mayor’s Violence Against Women & Girls Strategy), Kate Talbot (Lambeth Women’s Safety Charter) and Karla McLaren (Amnesty UK). Awesome!
  • Hollaback! Baltimore reported on their recent visit to Project PLASE, a transitional housing and support facility for formerly homelessness people. The visit was a part of Bmore’s project trying to document the underrepresented voices of homeless folks on the topic of street harassment. If you or someone you know has ever experienced homelessness and might be interested in sharing a story, please get in touch with our Baltimore hollas via Bmore@iHollaback.org
  • Hollaback! Boston champions Tumblr comic awesomeness Tyra WM. Check out her amazing street harassment work! The site also published a great blog post this week asking the question, in a harassment free world, would gendered nouns be left out of public encounters completely? A very thought provoking inquiry.
  • Hollaback! Des Moines posed an interesting quandary on their site this week: when is touching okay and how do we prevent unwanted touching. Our Iowa hollas are partnering this month with Iowa Pride Network for the 10th Annual Iowa Pride Conference at Iowa State University where they conducted a workshop talking to young people about their experiences with street harassment. The hollas are also working with the LGBT Health Initiative of Iowa to conduct a a needs assessment survey to determine how the Initiative can better serve the community.
  • Hollaback! Philly was featured in the City Paper in anticipation for their street harassment comic book!
  • Hollaback! Richmond is making a zine! On March 24, the site will gather to create a zine in honor of International Anti-Street Harassment Week. Very Cool.
  • Hollaback! Fredericksburg hosted their first Hollaback Hang, a conscious-raising group whose objective is to talk about personal experiences of street harassment and how to be a better bystander.
  • Hollaback! Bogotá did a HOLLAWho? Interview. Check out why Bogotá site leaders started their holla and why they like to Hollaback!

HOLLA and out —

Emily

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Street harassment: TAKE 2!

Thanks to Erin Jill for another great video!

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HOLLA ON THE GO: “It made me nervous.”

I was walking down a street and a group of painters/workers keep going up and down the street honking and yelling things at me. It made me nervous because I was alone and they went up and down the street more than 3 times. I thought they were going to follow me all the way to the coffee shop.

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HOLLA ON THE GO.

גבר הבחין בי מרחוק והסתתר. שמתי לב אליו וחשדתי אז עברתי לצידו השני של הכביש,כשחלפי על פניו ראיתי שהוא מתסכל עלי ומאונן. זה היה בשתיים בלילה.

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HOLLA ON THE GO: “It happened so fast.”

This type of event is always very triggering for me. Today I was out with some friends when a man grabbed me from behind and kissed my face then kept walking. It happened so fast I didn’t have time to react physically, but I yelled “Fuck you” as he walked away. He and his friend heard me and laughed.

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HOLLA ON THE GO: #racism

My friend called this black guy a n*gger.

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