Stalking

Hannah’s Story: “My mom just told me to run…”

When I was eight my mother and I were walking home at night through an alley when a guy hanging around nearby started following us. He didn’t say anything, he just kept a few paces behind us (like we didn’t notice or something). My mom kept swerving around corners trying to lose him, but she couldn’t and finally he got so close that my mom bent down and pretended to tie her shoe. He stopped and stood there. “Oh you go ahead,” she said. He said ok and kept walking. He was circling back around the block though. My mom just told me to run. We dived behind a dumpster and hid ourselves just as he came back around the corner. My mom called a friend who was nearby and he came and talked the guy into going away.

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A Week in Our Shoes

Week In Our Shoes: Keeping up the momentum

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How the days have sped by at HQ! With Holla::REV London getting closer, we’ve been hard at work getting everything in order. If you’ll be in London on June 23rd, you should join us for our free speaker’s series.

Outside of the office, we’ve been bopping around the city talking about street harassment and movement building wherever we go. Deputy director Debjani trained NYPD sergeants, captains, and lieutenants. Executive director Emily presented to the new Ashoka fellows and shared her expertise on movement building. The Hollaback! HQ team went to a screening of The Hunting Ground with Governor Cuomo. We got to meet Annie Clark and Andrea Pino, the amazing activists featured in the film. This week we’re saying goodbye to the last of our spring interns. Shoutout to Cat for all of her hard work.

Now for a look at what’s going on with our sites across the globe:

Hollaback! Nottingham sat on a panel to discuss their work and issues most important to them including: intersectionality, meninism, and the future of the movement.

Hollaback! Vancouver launched their branch of the Good Night Out program. They’ve gotten great press covering this new venture. Check out their pieces in Straight and The Province.

Hollaback! Korea is partnering with local organizations and doing some awesome organizing in their efforts to lift the ban on the Seoul Pride Parade. You can have their backs and sign the petition here.

Hollaback! Bahamas‘ site leader Alicia Wallace wrote a great blog post exploring the different ways she and others react to street harassment.

Hollaback! site leaders are continuing to tell their stories, complicate the narrative, and push the movement forward. Keep up the great work everyone!

Holla and out.

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Story, upskirt, Verbal

CB’s Story: Uncalled for snapshot

I was out walking my dog around 7:30AM while wearing a knee-length dress. As I approach the street corner, I feel something touch the back of my leg. I whip my head around and see a young man with a backpack pulling a phone away from the hem of my dress. I’m stunned for a moment. He walks ahead and I start to realize what he was doing.

I shout after him and give him a look of anger and confusion. He tries to brush it off. He tells me I’m beautiful and asks if I have a man. I’m still just in awe that he thought this was acceptable. I tell him to leave me alone and he speeds off. Should’ve taken a picture of him.

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groping, Nonverbal Harassment, Story, Verbal

HOLLA ON THE GO: Run to be safe

While walking down the street with my friend we were stopped by the group of three men. One of them groped her. Also, the verbal harassment took place. After we escaped from them they were following us and screaming humiliating phrases. We run into my friend’s house to be safe.

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Verbal

Carly’s Story: Sarcasm to cope with harassment

I was walking from my college to a Taco Bell down the street, and this guy shouted out of his car window “Suck my dick!!” Obviously my first response was to chase him down so that I could blow him.

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Stalking, Story

chloe’s Story: Uncomfortable in own home

On a regular basis i have felt a sense of someone watching me in my bedroom . The person always leaves some sort of signal such as a flashing light switching on and of everytime i enter the room. I have tried to ignore it but this along with the occasional artefact left outside of my house is becoming increasingly creepy .

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Verbal

Nicole’s Story: How she took control

Ladies, I encourage you to find safe and constructive ways of regaining control of street harassment situations. Today, I off the cuff took back control over mine. I don’t know what possessed me to do it, but walking past a construction site, I heard from loudly behind me, “Damn girl, you’re looking fiiiiinnnnnne today!” And turned around to see some smug, smirking little prick in a hardhat and vest seemingly proud of his verbal harassment. I pulled out my phone, pretended to take a picture of him (my photo album was 100% full, but he didn’t know that) and said, “Thanks for the pic, I’m going to report you today.” and waved at him, “too-doo-loo”-style like an asshole and calmly continued walking to my destination.

Although I wasn’t actually able to report him to the company without a picture, the fact that I had flipped the situation on him and invaded HIS privacy made ME personally feel empowered.

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Story, Verbal

Rowan’s Story: Question their purpose

I’m often in a very happy state of being, and I desire to help others, unless you’re a street harasser. Then, I seem to see red and harass the offender by following him and questioning his purpose in life. And yelling. Lots of yelling….it worked though. He was awful shy when up close, saying things like “You betta not touch me!” Of course I would not touch him. As soon as the security guard came to chase him off, he went right back to shouting “Fuck you, bitch!”

In the end, I hope he thinks before he goes after women again. They might just go after him, and some might be even more severe than me.

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Verbal

HOLLA ON THE GO: Unsafe at school

I was on campus at PCC Sylvania writing in a notebook when a guy who had been following me for a while sat down next to me. He asked me if I wanted to do romantic things with him like “eat pizza or have sex”. He would not go away despite my lying that I have a boyfriend. He grabbed my hand and I was really scared he would get violent. I did not feel safe at my own school today. I washed my hands many times when I got home. :/ I hate harassment.

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Verbal

HOLLA ON THE GO: Habitual harassment

Cat calls on the regular route from walk to home and return. Everyday for the past one year

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