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Elizabeth’s story: We’re rising against BARKING.

I was walking back to my car with a friend from a Denny’s after meeting up with him to see the Space Shuttle. It was late and dark, and as the two of us were walking down Exposition Blvd so I could get back to my car, some guys drove past us and barked like dogs out the window of their moving car, leaving me feeling very vulnerable at that moment.

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A Week in Our Shoes

Week in Our Shoes: DEAR JOHN EDITION

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Dear Amazing Hollas—

First and foremost, our Dear John Campaign has launched! The project was spearheaded by our “Mover of the Month” and blogger Tanisha Ramirez in solidarity with One Billion Rising. If you or anyone you know has a bone to pick with a harasser (I mean, don’t we all?), send a Dear John letters to holla@ihollaback.org!

In other news: Hollaback! just won top three safety apps of the 2013! A big thank you and congratulations to Jill Dimond, our Hollaback! developer, as well as Josephine Hall and Amy Palamountain for their hard work and bringing us to this great honor. Also, our Deputy Director Debjani and I were on a Pure Imagination radio show last Friday, listen in, and I had the honor of going to the MAKERS premiere on Wednesday night. The three-hour PBS documentary airs on Tuesday, February 26 at 8PM ET on PBS (check your local listings).

 

Now let me just say, WOW this has been an impressive week for Hollabackers all over the world! Here is what they’re up to:

Hollaback! Halifax was on the radio this week! Listen to Halifax hollas on CBC Maritime Noon discuss what drove them to start Hollaback! Halifax and how people can respond to street harassment. Way to go!

Hollaback! Boston did a team interview this week with our blogger Chloe Safier. Read about why these hollas came together to start Hollaback! Boston. The site is currently raising awareness about the issue of street harassment and race which you can read about here. Also, check out Hollaback! Boston’s response and very necessary continuation of this week’s Jezebel article,”How to Talk to a Woman Without Being a Creep.”

Hollaback! Baltimore did an interview with our blogger Rita Pasarell this week. Find out how hollas Shawna and Melanie got started with Hollaback! and what gets these girls ticking. Also, Hollaback! Baltimore turns 2 years old this week! The site is celebrating with a pre-party and epic Terribly Two birthday bash this Friday. Happy Birthday, hollas!

Hollaback! Brussels got an awesome shout out this week on the blog Brussels is Love, in a post by the author on the tragic objectification of women and harassment that often follows.

Hollaback! Gent’s Ilse wrote a great response to a rather inflammatory article in De Standaard online publication. Way to hollaback, Ilse!

Hollaback Israel is fighting harassment on public transportation! Yes, this is part of our story too, folks. Public transportation should be safe and accessible to everyone.

Hollaback! Philly is planning for their day of action on February 19 where they will work in partnership with various UN affiliated organizations to reach out to legislators to make the city of Philadelphia a safer place.

HollaBack!BLN is teaming up with the super fabulous Riot Grrrl Berlin for their next compilation titled, “Cats Against Catcalling.” Very cool.

Hollaback! Italy is getting ready for One Billion Rising in Italy! In their most recent blog post, Italy reminds us that this upcoming V-Day is very much a paramount gesture of unity and solidarity as women.

Hollaback! South Africa did a profile on different types of street harassers, helping to provide the anti street harassment community with a straightforward way of determining who we are dealing with each time we are harassed.

Hollaback! Birmingham joins forces with the University of Birmingham’s Zero Tolerance Campaign against harassment and bullying. Working side by side with the university, Birmingham hollas are collecting stories and raising awareness of about harassment.

Hollaback! Edinburgh interviewed the amazing Fiona Elvines, the Operations Coordinator at Rape Crisis South London and researcher on street harassment. Read all about Fiona’s incredible research in the interview posted on Edinburgh’s site.

Hollaback! London’s took part in the Reclaim the Night anti-Rape march in Cambridge. Hollaback! London site leader, Julia went up to give a talk at King’s Chapel following the march. Check out details about our London hollas’ participation in this important citywide event!

Hollaback! Des Moines has launched their first internship program. A very warm Hollaback! welcome to Des Moines’ Spring intern Tessa Hopson! Tessa is currently finishing her PharmD with a concentration in women’s studies at Drake University.

Hollaback! Croatia is raising awareness about the health education happenings in Croatia. Check out their site for a wealth of information!

Hollaback NYU’s Sarah Khan did an exciting HOLLAWho? interview this week with Krista Bedosky. Read how Sarah got started with Hollaback! and how she fights daily street harassment in New York City.

BRILLIANT job this week everyone. What a team! Big week coming up next week, so keep up the momentum, and  I am so excited to see what we do!

 

HOLLA and out –

Emily

 

 

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HOLLAWho? Meet NYU.

Meet Sarah Khan, NYU Sarah Khan hollabacker and advocate fighting street harassment around New York City.

Interview conducted by Krista Bedosky

1. Why did you start a HOLLA and what does Hollaback mean to you?

Women deal with street harassment daily here in NYC, yet we don’t openly acknowledge or discuss it. Hollaback is a chance to empower women and bring them together to talk about their experiences.

2. What was your first experience with street harassment?

When I was 11 I used to walk around my neighborhood with a best friend and we would get honked, leered, and yelled at by men as old as 50 all of the time. It’s a quiet suburb with no sidewalks, so there would be no one else around to stand up for us. It was the first time I connected being female with being in danger.

3. What’s your signature Hollaback?

I keep steady, aggressive eye contact instead of looking scared or pretending like it isn’t happening. It’s the one thing I’ve done that actually works.

4. If you could leave the world one piece of advice, what would it be?

Don’t worry too much about other people’s advice.

5. What inspires you?

I’m inspired by anyone who struggles to do something despite his or her fears.

6. In the year 2020, street harassment…

will be recognized as a widespread issue that many women face every day.

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Hollaback! Baltimore Interviews

Interview conducted by Rita Pasarell 

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Here’s what Shawna and Melanie of Hollaback! Baltimore had to say about their city, being queen for a day, and how they HOLLA:

When did you start your HOLLA?

Shawna: February of 2011…
Melanie: … and I joined in May 2012.

Why did you start a HOLLA and what does Hollaback mean to you?

S: I wanted to do more. It was a perfect time in my life to connect with Hollaback! because I was living outside the city, had a boring job and my band at the time was inactive. I needed to get involved and do something that mattered.

M: To me, Hollaback means standing up for yourself and others like you by letting harassers know that just because their crimes are socially silenced and ignored, doesn’t mean we, the ones affected, are just gonna take their bullshit.

HOLLAfact about your city: 

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S: We’re about to win the Superbowl! Hahaha [editor’s note: Shawna correctly predicted the future. Don’t mess with her.]
Say you’re Queen for the day. What would you do to end street harassment?
S: Unfortunately in our society there is no “equal to the crime” level of punishment. I would suggest a “if you haven’t got anything nice to say” strategy, whereby anyone who leers would lose their ability to see for an hour. Say something vulgar? No talking for you for a while. Dare to follow or touch a stranger inappropriately and we’re not going to let you use your hands for evil while in public.

M: I would gather all men and boys of Baltimore into a giant room and tell them stories that hopefully put them in women & LGBT folks’ shoes so they finally GET it! And since I’m queen, they totally will.

What was your first experience with street harassment?

S: I can’t recall the actual first time, but that probably speaks to how young I was when it occurred. I’m sure at the time I didn’t have the language, knowledge, or self-confidence to name it as street harassment, but I do have one clear memory as a 16 year old. I was filling up my gas tank, a new driver, and a man who was obviously too old for any contact between us to be appropriate whistled, leered at me and said something about giving me a ride. Gross euphemism intended, ugh.

M: I cannot even remember. I do remember feeling icky and self-conscious in public by my last year in middle school. By the time I was in college, street harassment was just another shitty thing that happened a lot. I remember every morning in college being terrified and angry at this one man who would sit on a bench outside my apartment complex and whistle, wink, wave, nod and stare me down on my walk to class.

What’s your signature Hollaback?

S: “Fuck you”

M: Depends. I’d love to yell and shout at them, but honestly I am scared at what will happen if I do, so I usually ignore them. Then I post my story on Hollaback.
What is your proudest holla moment so far?
S: Last year we did some mud-stenciling at the Inner Harbor (a very high traffic area) and we had so many women come up and tell us how wonderful it is that someone like us is out in Baltimore trying to do something about street harassment. Basically, they were happy that they were not alone, that our existence validated all their experiences with street harassment. That connection to the community always feels amazing.

M: When I did my first two hollaback in-person meetings at a cafe in the city, I had no idea if anyone was going to show up at all, but each time I had at least 2 or 3 people that I didn’t know come and engage in really wonderful conversation about activism, street harassment and all of that great stuff. I was so proud that I found even just a few new hollaback allies!

What do you do when you’re not holla’ing?

S: I yell for War On Women, a feminist punk band, and I help run Big Crunch Amp & Guitar Repair with my partner in crime and life.

M: I’m a Safehouse Advocate in a DV shelter.

If you could leave the world one piece of advice, what would it be?
S: In the words of Bill and Ted, “be excellent to each other”.

What are you excited about in 2013?

S: Touring with my band in western Europe this April and trying to meet up with my fellow Hollabackers on their home turf!

M: Bmore’s 2 yr old birthday bash in February!

What inspires you?

S: Every hollaback, every male ally, and all my fellow site leaders around the world. And wine and chocolate.

M: Activist movements like Act Up and Occupy (and a zillion others). It’s comforting to know that everything doesn’t happen overnight, but sometimes the change we create just takes us a while to recognize for ourselves. It’s also hard to not burn out when you’re so fired up and emotionally connected to a cause, but these other movements were not perfect, they had both their strengths and weaknesses while still making a huge difference in the world. That’s a relief for me when I am super frustrated and feeling like I’m just not doing enough.

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Hollaback! Boston Interviews

Interview conducted by Chloe Safier

Boston Team

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In the photo from left to right: Britni Clark, Kate Ziegler, Angela Della Porta, Devon Audie, Jane Carper.

When did you start your holla?

Devon: After a summer and fall full of planning and Hollaback! webinars, Hollaback! Boston launched in December, 2011.

Why did you start a HOLLA and what does Hollaback mean to you?

Britni: I wanted to start a HOLLA because I couldn’t believe that Boston, a big city with busy public transportation, didn’t have one. I knew that if I experienced a lot of harassment on a daily basis that chances were that other women did, too. Hollaback means that I don’t have to take it and that we can start to change this pervasive idea that receiving street harassment is just this thing that you have to deal with when you’re female and in public spaces. It means that I have the power to help change the conversation.

Jane: For personal reasons, I started Hollaback! Boston to create a space where I could fight against harassment with likeminded individuals who know what it is like to be unsafe publically in one’s own body. To me, to hollaback means to take back a slice of power in a situation of imbalanced power. Even if the individual feels that their holla didn’t have an impact, on a larger scale, every individual holla makes the movement stronger.

Angela: Hollaback not only meant being part of a movement to make Boston and other cities safer, but it was a tool through which I could let other women, LGB & T* folks, and straight male bystanders know that they do have a way to fight back against this constant harassment, and I didn’t even have a complete dictionary of language to convey that before Hollaback.

Devon: I joined the start up team after Jane reached out and was asking if others she knew would like to help her fight street harassment in a more organized way. To be honest, the concept of it was novel to me at the time because I had always just lived with street harassment and had thought it was something I had to learn to “live with” so joining Hollaback! was an amazing wake up call!

Kate: I was no stranger to street harassment, but had grown to accept it mostly as an unfortunate fact of life. I found myself particularly upset about catcalls I received while running – not at my best, not sexy, just sweaty and smelly. Maybe it was the extra time I had as I ran to work myself up over harassment and what I wished I had said in the moment, but I began to consider the power dynamic that underlies harassment, and the irrelevance of my appearance or behavior. My being powerless to prevent harassment really began to get to me, and starting Hollaback! Boston to help other victims of street harassment to realize that their experiences and sense of vulnerability are not isolated or their fault helped me to feel less powerless myself. Hollaback, to me, is all about conversations – removing shame and blame and helping others, victims, bystanders and harassers alike, to understand the context of our behaviors and the damage that the normalization of harassment can do.

HOLLAfact about your city:

Britni: That Boston is awesome? Oh, you mean something you didn’t already know?

Jane: Our public transit buses (and trains) still run during snow storms. Isn’t that awesome? (Well, until 1am. We have a bedtime.)

Angela: Like everywhere in New England, temperatures in Boston can range from -30 degrees to 110 degrees; no matter what the temperature, what women are wearing, or how covered up they are, streets harassment never cools down.

Devon: Well, even though Boston is awesome, we still experience lots of street harassment, just like everywhere else in the world. :\

Kate: All of the Back Bay is built on landfill! At the Trinity Church in Copley Square, visitors can see the foundation and the stilts that support the building. When Boston ran out of room, they filled in part of the harbor and the Charles River (the “back bay”) to make more.

Say you’re Queen for the day.  What would you do to end street harassment?

Britni: Give all harassers the sentence of having to experience street harassment on a daily basis for a week so that they know what it feels like to live that way.

Jane: I would first pack a culmination of all of the street harassment a woman experienced over her whole life and all of the messy feelings and hurt it brought up. Then, I would place that into the mind of a harasser so he knows the exact negative chain of reactions he is causing.

Angela: Install street-harassment sensing cameras. Then, call the perpetrators in and sentence them to watching themselves harass women until they promise to never do it again, and because I’m such a benevolent queen, they stop!

Devon: I guess if I were Queen for a day then I would simply enlighten street harassers around the world of their disrespectful wrong doings, all with the wave of a wand. I’m confusing Queen with Fairy God Mother, but that’s okay.

Kate: So long as my Queen-dom includes a bit of magic, I turn patriarchal rape culture rape culture on its head for the day so that everyone can have some small sense of what years of “normal” harassment can do to change a victim’s sense of vulnerability and the ways they move through public space.

What was your first experience with street harassment?

Britni: Oh, god. I don’t even remember! But I know that I was probably flattered by it because I thought I was supposed to be. It wasn’t until I got a little older and the harassment got creepier that I started to question whether or not this was really complimentary behavior.

Jane: The first time was probably when I was a young teen, taking a city bus to school. I’m sure I was flattered because, like Britni said, I was taught to feel that way.

Angela: I honestly can’t remember. They sort of all blur together.

Devon: I wrote about my first experience with street harassment in my introduction post on the Hollaback! Boston blog.

Kate: When I was 13, a guard at the Sistine Chapel grabbed my butt as I filed through staring at the ceiling. I was embarrassed, scared and, at the same time, felt I should be flattered. I still wish I had hollered back.

What’s your signature Hollaback?

Britni: I usually just say, “Please don’t talk to me like that. It’s not okay.” But sometimes I can’t help it and I unleash some pent up anger and curse them out!

Jane:“STOP HARASSING WOMEN!”

Angela: “Don’t speak to me like that. Don’t speak to women like that.”

Devon: I stick with firm, closed-ended responses like, “Don’t talk to me like that.” Or, “Don’t harass women.”

Kate: On foot, a simple, “…eew,” combined with a general appearance of disgust and dismissal. By bike, a very loud “respect women!” If I’ve been running for anything over 10 miles, I’m not very polite, nor quotable.

Define your style:

Britni: Quirky, colorful, sparkly. Super feminine, manic pixie dream girl-esque. Like Punky Brewster fell in a pit of sequins and glitter.

Jane: Lots of fall colors… at all times of the year. A mix of thrifted clothes and Target essentials. Comfortable shoes!

Angela: Some combination of really basic, boring things, jeans, giant glasses, and various animal prints and pink items mixed in.

Devon: I’ve been trying to become more “””professional””” so I’ve felt pretty boring lately.

Kate: Pearls meets Pennsylvania Dutch. Classic Boston with a contemporary art habit.

My superheroine power is…

Britni: Confidence and a big mouth!

Jane: Intersecting social issues so I can see the multiple entry points of a problem. Then lots of talking and brainstorming action steps to cultivate change!

Angela: A super ability to turn from “beautiful” or “cute” to a “bitch” to harassers in the blink of an eye!

Kate: Penmanship

What is your proudest holla moment so far?

Britni: When we got our first submission.

Jane: When our picture and start-up story was in the Metro!

Angela: When I was explaining Hollaback! to an older woman with whom I was interviewing, she told me she never thought about street harassment, it was always just the way it was, and she’s glad someone is finally trying to make a difference. Honestly, every time it clicks for someone, I’m proud again.

Devon: I’m just proud of every single person we reach on Facebook, the blog, twitter, etc. I’m proud that we are able to make a difference in people’s lives, even if it’s slight, and to help them realize they’re not alone when dealing with street harassment.

Kate: While chalking anti-harassment taglines around Boston one morning last summer, an older woman stopped to watch our progress. We finished a, “Hey Baby is no way to say hello!” and she approached to tell us how glad she was that we were out, explaining that she still can’t believe that at her age, men still harass her, and in fact had just that morning a few blocks away. Our conversation wasn’t a particularly happy one, but the connection made a big impression on me and I look back on it fondly.

What do you do when your not holla’ng?

Britni: I’m a social worker by day, spiritual gangster by night.

Jane: Finishing up my undergraduate degree at Clark University with a double-major in Psychology and Race, Class, and Gender Studies. I also watch a lot of sci-fi and TV dramas.

Angela: Finishing my last semester and graduating (class of 2013, woo!) from Clark University, working with 1 in 3′s campaign to end abortion stigma and increase access to reproductive care, social networking, and hanging out!

Devon: I’m usually busying myself with school, work, and of course Netflix.

Kate: I have a day job in Operations. On the side, I run a design firm (Union Jack Creative) with my partner, Jack. I run, and bike, and ski, and spend a lot of time nursing bruises from those things. I have a soft spot for fashion magazines, I cook often but seldom measure, and I love a good episode of Mythbusters.

If you could leave the world one piece of advice, what would it be?

Britni: Treat others like you would want to be treated. The world is a lot nicer that way and my days are much better when I live that way.

Jane: Be kind to others, because you never know what the other person is going through.

Angela: Be confident in everything you do and everything you are.

Devon: R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Kate: Take a deep breath and sleep on it.

What are you excited about in 2013?

Britni: Speaking to a women studies class at UMass Boston! Getting married.

Jane: I am excited about all of the elected women who have taken office after the last election and the impact it will have worldwide.

Angela: Graduating, Teaching in Detroit, MI (as much as I’ll miss Massachusetts!)

Devon: I’m excited about graduating and entering the Real World! And of course for all the new and exciting work Hollaback! volunteers will accomplish.

Kate: Elizabeth Warren’s election in MA, and the potential for progress everywhere!

What inspires you?

Britni: Women kicking ass. Margaret Cho.

Jane: The whole Hollaback! movement! The fact that we’re international and that women and allies across all spectrums are coming together to take a stand against gender-based violence.

Angela: Being part of something bigger.

Devon: Women in politics!

Kate: Strength, bravery and kindness.

In the year 2020, street harassment…

Britni: …will be a foreign concept to everyone and something we never ever talk about because we don’t have to.

Jane: will be a shameful embarrassment of the men who still practice it and active bystanders will tell those harassers to cut it out!

Angela: … is seen as harassment and gender-based violence, something that doesn’t “just happen.”

Devon: …will be so obviously not okay! Just like it is in the workplace!

Kate:… is just silly. Everyone moves through public space respectfully and feels safe doing so.

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A Week in Our Shoes

WEEK IN OUR SHOES: Holla’ing Back Through the Public Mic

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Dear Hollabackers,

This week was full of excitement with Hollabackers all over the world planning up a storm for One Billion Rising and, in countless creative ways, continuing to get the word out about Hollaback! and our continuing fight to end street harassment. Here in New York, after reading Wednesday’s Gawker article highlighting New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s habit of regularly degrading women, we decided to holla-back with this public statement. If you haven’t already, please read it and share. This is an example of how harassment is NOT a cultural issue or a class issue; it’s a global issue that arises at all levels of society. Now is as good a time as ever to fight back and speak out.

Now, lets hear what our amazing sites around the world have been up to:

Hollaback! Berlin has been active in recent online discussions on harassment in Berlin. In recent weeks, the city of berlin has seen an amazing upsurge of women reporting their daily encounters with street harassment throughout social media. In the midst of all this inspiring speaking out, Hollaback! Berlin has done a great job getting the word out about Hollaback! in German blogs such as Femgeeks and Antiprodukt. Check them out!

Hollaback! San Francisco is getting ready for One Billion Rising. Check out the awesome pictures from their flash mob rehearsal last weekend!

Hollaback! Boston has put together an an anti-street harassment new years resolution list. In three easy-to-remember steps, Hollaback! Boston keeps us working towards a harassment-free 2013.

Hollaback! RVA has had quite a week! The site held a successful meeting this past Wednesday, collecting stories about harassment that they will be posting on their blog. Keep your eyes peeled for accounts of street harassment coming from Richmond next week. Hollaback! RVA is also revving its engine for One Billion Rising in Richmond. They are doing some great collaborative work with OBR RVA and are in the middle of preparations for a big Hollaback! RVA benefit. Super exciting stuff.

Hollaback! Istanbul is getting the word out on their site about some disturbing new research on the self-silencing of many women when they feel they are outnumbered. Harassment is very much woven into this story of this silence. Hollaback! pushes against violence at all levels, including the violence of of being silent, especially when in the face of to gender-based harassment. Yes, there is much work to be done!

Hollaback! Italia is doing great work publicizing their work with One Billion Rising Milan. Check out their rehearsal photos and updates on preparations for the big day!

Hollaback! Baltimore is in their final preparations for their birthday bash next Friday, January 9. There will be birthday games, music, dancing, live performances, and pizza donated from our friends at Johnny Rad’s!

Hollaback! Brussels has been standing in solidarity with LGBTQ organizations against the Russian Federation’s potential passing of discriminatory legislation that would limit the rights of the Russian LGBTQ community. Read the account of their incredible day of solidarity. Hollaback! Brussels is also getting ready for One Billion Rising. Plans for a V-Day filled with discussion, a chalk walk, and dancing are well underway. Brussels Hollabackers are doing some great coordinating with other organizations in the area, assembling a flash mob and a V-Day after party.

Hollaback! Alberta is attending the U of A International-Week 2013 theatre production that depicts real-life stories from individuals who experienced gender-based harassment. Also, Hollaback! Alberta’s very own Lauren Alston did a big interview this week. Read it and find out the story of Hollaback! Alberta from beginning to now and where these Hollabackers plan to go from here.

Hollaback! Winnipeg‘s director, Jodie Layne, speaks out about policies in schools that try to control women’s bodies and choice of clothing in Thursday’s article, “Leggings Off Limits” in the Winnipeg Free Press. Read Jodie’s powerful response to recent restrictions on everyday choices of young women.

Awesome work this week everyone! Keep it truckin’!

HOLLA and Out-

Emily

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