Campus Harassment Tales: Part 4

The Men Who Will Never Get Laid

It’s late and you’re tired. You didn’t want to go out tonight, but you lost the latest battle against peer pressure so here you are. You’re trying not to be cranky as your friend drags you down the street, rambling on about some boy that she has a crush on. It’s just past ten and you sigh, knowing that you have to stay out until at least midnight so as to not receive backlash from any of your girlfriends. You ask your friend where you’re headed.

“The frat house on the corner,” she says.

You groan and make a fuss, whining about how you are not in the mood to deal with vagina-hungry party boys.  She chuckles and rolls her eyes, mistaking your concern for humor. Nearly to the corner, you give yourself a pep-talk: just smile and stop being such a downer, this will be fi…You and some guy bump shoulders, and you’re thrown off track.  You turn around to apologize but before you can open your mouth to say anything, he looks you up and down saying,

“Damn girl, I’d lease you out for the night.”

It takes you a quick second to register what he has just said.   Your face flushes with anger, but before you have time to react, your friend yanks you away. You wonder how people can be so disrespectful. Your friends tell you to relax, that it was just some drunk guy being stupid. You tell them that, no, it’s not just some drunk guy—that it happens all the time and that you’re tired of being so passive about it and that nobody should  be able to talk to you like you’re some used up sex doll.

You realize that you’ve once again become the downer of the group; you decide not to care. Your friends pull you down the rest of the street to the house and as you’re about to walk up the stairs some guys stops you.

“Hey I’ve got some condoms in my wallet, let’s go.”

In all your sophistication and glory, you smile and politely tell him to go fuck himself.

Megan is majoring in Women and Gender Studies with a minor in Philosophy. She has a fearless passion for helping people and is dedicated to revealing the harassment that occurs on campus and on the street every day in New Brunswick.

 

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  1. Melissa Owsiany says:

    yep, learned not to care. …wait, tuned out? …wait, decided other people’s opinions were better than mine? …that was 18 yrs ago, now i still put up w/ “do the curtains match the drapes!?” almost w/ out getting angry. almost. B/C some attention is better than none, RIGHT!!?? Don’t Make A Scene!!

    I am committed to my daughters doing better than I.

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