Why I started loving hate mail.

BY EMILY MAY

There is nothing like a fresh batch of hate mail to get me motivated.  Back when we first started Hollaback!, hate mail made me feel so crappy inside.  What can I say? I was socialized to be a girl and make everyone like me — even the people I didn’t really like.  It took a while for me to re-socialize as an activist and realize that you’re not making change unless you’re pissing people off.

Allow me to geek out on nonprofit-performance-management stuff for a second, but it is really hard to measure social and behavioral change in society.  Is Hollaback! succeeding when we get more stories or less? How do we know when people have the “click” moment that makes them stop harassing? How do we know how we contributed to it? Hate mail seems like as good of a metric as any.  So bring it, haters. We’re quite pleased with ourselves that our vision of a world without street harassment has made you so deeply uncomfortable.

And now, a message from our hater of the day.  Typos were left intact.  Oh, and I should put a RAGE warning on this:

“WOMEN KNOW WOMEN ARE ALWAYS TO BLAME. WOMEN ARE THE TROUBLE STARTER. WOMEN ARE ALWAYS GUILTY. WOMEN HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE ON THIS PLANET. YOU KNOW WHERE YOU BELONG. WHY DONT YOU LEAVE… I AM USA WASHINGTON DC CAPITOL DISCTRICT OFFICIAL. I AM USA LAW. I SEE STRAIGHT THROUGH THIS HOAX OF WOMEN. YOU WOMEN ALWASY ASSAULT AND BATTERIZE EVERYONE. YOU WANT EVERYONE TO BE YOUR SLAVE. YOU ALL ARE SO EVIL. OTHER THAN EVIL WHAT ELSE CAN YOU DO? QUIT SLAVING THE POLICE AROUND THE TOWN LIKE CLOWNS.”

 

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  1. Donna says:

    When you get mail like this, you know you’re doing something right – I can only hope to get mail like this one day!

  2. Enna says:

    Some people clearly have too much time on their hands to write rubbish like this.

  3. Kelsey says:

    You’ve got a great way of reacting to messages like this! Instead of getting upset or letting the rage ruin your day, see it as progress: Hollaback has made the harassers and haters sit up and take notice! And on reading it a second time, between his (I’m presuming the writer is male) bad grammar and ridiculous statements, it’s a real gem of hilarity…

  4. Elena says:

    This mail clearly describes the offenses we are blamed for–we are guilty of nothing. What injustice!!

  5. Lara says:

    Thanks for publishing this comment, I had a nice laugh!

    The moron who wrote it seems to be unaware of some basic biology. If women have no right to be on planet earth then how does he think he could have been born?

    I’d like to watch the brain cells tick over on that one.

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