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Have You Seen This Man?

Police say this is the man who allegedly tried to rape a woman in the East Village on Sunday, Nov. 13, 2011. (credit: NYPD)

BY VICTORIA TRAVERS

This man is wanted in connection with an attempted rape of a woman in the East Village in the early hours of Sunday Morning.

According to police the suspect is a white man, aged between 25 and 30, 5’9 and weighing approximately 190lbs.

The attacker was alleged to have followed his 27-year-old victim from the First Avenue Subway Station at 14th Street to her home, where he pushed her to the ground and tried to rape her, bravely she fought back causing him to flee the crime scene.

Luckily, he was caught on CCTV and provided law enforcement with a fortunately clear image of him.

So here’s a massive Hollaappeal to anyone in the New York area that recognizes the man in the picture or who has any other information. Hollaback! and either call the NYPD Crime Stoppers hotline at 1-800-577-8477 (TIPS) or Log on to the Crime Stoppers website. All calls are kept confidential. Text your tip to 274637 (CRIMES), then enter TIP577.


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To Keenan and Reuben: The Boys Who Did Not Look Away

Last month we published an article detailing the heroic actions of Mumbai young men, Keenan Santos and Reuben Fernandez, who were both savagely murdered when they stood up to street Harassment. Just over a week ago Hollaback! Mumbai payed their tributes to these brave souls and a story that was far too close to home:

BY RIYA KARTHA, BLOGGER AT QUAINT MURMUR, FREELANCE WRITER AND LECTURER AT WILSON COLLEGE

If there is anything we are taught from birth it is to avoid confrontation.  To look away. We are moulded as a society to ignore, to not take chances with, to leave well enough alone.

Two weeks ago, a casual dinner turned into a nightmare for a group of young Mumbaikars. As they stepped out after dinner, an altercation with a drunk man led to events which nobody could have foreseen. Reuben Fernandez and Keenan Santos died of stab wounds inflicted by one man with an army of thirteen. The latter died soon after the altercation, the former succumbed to his injuries last night.

Well-meaning folks say they could have avoided the altercation. By looking away. By ignoring it. By leaving well enough alone.

I didn’t know either one personally. What I do know is that I am grateful that they existed at all. I have lived in Mumbai for many years now and this is the city I call home. And yet today, in this city, two boys are dead because they took offense to a drunk man making sexual advances towards a girl in their group. Because they didn’t look away.

Too often I have fought my own battles with a niggling feeling that some man would come and get me back for standing up for myself. Too often I have been upset with male friends who ignored a threat, choosing to look away instead. So when people shrug sadly and remark that looking away was a better option, I feel my heart break.

Because there is a fundamental flaw with that logic. If there is anything that we should learn from the deaths of Reuben and Keenan it is that looking away is not the solution. It is that we have lost our voices, our dignity and indeed our conscience by repeatedly looking away each time we are faced with an assault on our individual and collective dignity. Nobody deserves to die for standing up for someone elses dignity. Nobody deserves to die like that. And that we have begun to believe that is the way things are is where the flaw lies.

Any woman who has walked the streets of this city will attest to feeling the humiliation. Because we face these killers every day. They walk among us, talk dirty to us, feel us up, brush against us, pinch us and grope us and every single time we report these, we are asked to keep our mouths shut for fear of swift and painful retribution.

And so by doing so, we have lost our collective voice. We keep our heads down and we shut our eyes and ears and we move on. Oblivious to other people, oblivious to all the injustice around us. And because two boys refused to do so, because they refused to listen to the naysayers, they are dead. What a horrible way to go! Fighting for a society that probably wouldn’t have done the same for them.

So no, I don’t think they should have looked away. I think we should have looked out for them. We should look out for them now. We should stop looking away before Reuben and Keenan seem like a distant memory.

Thank you, Keenan and Reuben. For not looking away.

You are both heroes in my book.

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Casualty of War: Amber Cole

BY ERIN HOLLABACK DES MOINES
Make no mistake, we are at war. We are engaged in battle with gender binaries, expectations of gender presentation, rape culture, and a great many number of things- we are most certainly at war. And in war, there are casualties.

I want to apologize. We at Hollaback! Des Moines have not yet addressed the case of Amber Cole, the 14-year-old Baltimore teen who is depicted in a video performing oral sex on a teen boy. The video went viral, and Amber has faced endless shaming, threats, and harassment. The boys have been arrested, and Cole has decided to press charges against them. This is an important subject to discuss, and I’d like to address it now- better late than never.

The following is an excerpt from the Washington Post’s online blog, written by school psychologist and doctoral student Erin Harper:

“The boys who participated in this act are also children who should not have their human rights violated by dragging their names through the same mud as Amber’s. Instead, they should be taught why their behavior is wrong, why it is “okay” for child pornography to be circulated as entertainment, and why society is so twisted that an internet search for Amber Cole’s name yields an “Official” video when the only thing official about the video is that consumers who “know better” are OFFICIAL FREAKING IDIOTS WHO DESERVE OFFICIAL CHILD PORNOGRAPHY CHARGES AND OFFICIAL TIME IN JAIL.”

Granted, her caps-lock near the end there reveals some heavy bias, but I believe Harper is tackling an issue few people have- why the boys felt it was alright to upload that video onto the Internet. Why we need to educate our children about sex, laws pertaining to sex, and how despite what they may think, there are consequences to one’s actions. So many parents, bloggers, reporters, etc. have been consumed with “choosing a side” that they have not addressed the reason reasons we’re even talking about this case.
Here: (http://jezebel.com/5853116/i-am-amber-coles-father?tag=amber-cole) is a man who at first claims to be Amber’s father, bashes Amber’s mother, and essentially promotes a “boys will be boys” policy before revealing that is is actually Jimi Izrael. Here: (http://www.amptoons.com/blog/2011/10/26/no-you-arent-amber-coles-father/) is a response by Jeff Fecke, relatively constructive, but still hell-bent on choosing a side.

My personal stance on the Amber Cole case is not to automatically jump on the offensive, bash these boys, and applaud Cole for her bravery; it is instead to examine what deep-seeded issues led to the problem, and how we can address them so things like these cease happening. Amber Cole is not the only teen that has been slandered across the Internet, and yet she has been singled out. Why is that, do we think? Is it her race, her age, her geographic, location, what is it about her?

I don’t know the answer to this question. I have my musings, but no definitive, concrete answer. So I’ll pose the question to you all- why is it, do you think, that among all the American teens who have experienced this type of harassment, we have singled out Amber Cole? Why is it so much easier to either blame her or rally around her, than the address the underlying issues of sexism, racism, and rape culture?

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Ring That Bell And End Domestic Violence in India!


BY SARA SUGAR

Bell Bajao is a series of print, radio and television advertisements produced by global human rights organization Breakthrough, as part of a three-year commitment of the Clinton Global Initiative to end violence against women in India. Breakthrough uses popular culture to mobilize individuals to fight back against human injustices and Bell Bajao is spreading awareness of the prevalence of domestic violence, the societal beliefs surrounding it, and specifically what men are able to do to help end it.

According to Trustlaw, a legal news service run by Thomsom Reuters Foundation, India ranks as one of the world’s five most dangerous countries for women. A poll, conducted by Trustlaw, asked 213 gender experts to rank countries on their overall perception of danger and on six specific risks: health threats, sexual violence, non-sexual violence, cultural or religious factors, lack of access to resources and trafficking. Following Afghanistan, Congo and Pakistan, India was polled as the fourth most dangerous country for women, ranking just one place above Somalia. According to Bell Bajao, more than two-thirds of married women between the ages of 15 and 49 have experience domestic violence, with as much as 40 percent of women and men in India believing that it is at least sometimes justifiable for women to be beaten by their husbands, as well as, 35 percent of women experience domestic violence. But Bell Bajao is working to rewrite these statistics.

Through the use of the Internet, social media, celebrity endorsements and training toolkits, Bell Bajao is calling on men and boys to help put an end to violence aimed at women. Through a series of print, radio and television advertisements that encourage men to step in and help stop violence against women, the Bell Bajao campaign has reached over 130 million people across India and went global in 2010.

The campaign stresses the importance and emphasizes the positive effects that men can have towards ending domestic violence. Bell Bajao, which translates as “ring the bell” in Hindi, is encouraging men to do just that. It uses an education-centric campaign that teaches how to safely speak up against domestic violence, men are seeing that by physically ringing the bell or knocking on the front door where they believe domestic violence is taking place, they are able to interrupt domestic violence and very often save a life.

This year, November 25 through December 10, marks the 2011 Center for Women’s Global Leadership’s 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence Campaign. The campaign, which starts on International Day Against Violence Against Women (November 25), and ends on International Human Rights Day (December 10), is used as a mobilizing tool for organizations and individuals to speak up against violence aimed at women and to advocate for its elimination. Contributing this year, Bell Bajao is holding the campaign’s first-ever fiction (re)writing competition, #Rewrite the Ending.

Everyone has wanted to change the ending of a book, play or movie at some point in their lives, and now’s your chance! Here’s the opportunity to re-write the violent, sexist, misogynistic ending of a novel, play, movie, or anything that spurs your creative juices and inflames your feminist consciousness! Visit the Bell Bajao website at www.bellbajao.org for additional information. The Contest ends November 21 so get writing, and with Bell Bajao, help rewrite the lives of women affected by domestic violence every day.

 

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Occupy Houston’s got internal solidarity, and we like it.

On November 8th we issued a public statement with OccupyWallSt.org that was co-signed by over 50 organizations and 4 Occupy Sites. One of these sites is Occupy Houston, who used our call to action to write a beautiful internal solidarity statement.  We are reprinting it here in hope that is of use to Occupy sites around the world as they look to craft movements that are inclusive of the 99%.

 

Internal Solidarity Statement:

This is a living document. As the Occupy Houston community,
we have the right and responsibility to edit this document on an ongoing basis.
We welcome feedback and new ideas.

We are the 99%, and our task is to unify the 99%. We are a society in which
many are diligently seeking to resolve issues of various forms of oppression.
As the Occupy Houston community, we will consciously and urgently work on
dismantling these systems of oppression even within our movement. We are
working on creating a community where everyone’s rights are respected,
protected, and treated equally. We all have different levels of privilege that
we strive to acknowledge and educate ourselves about in order to ensure that
these privileges are not used to oppress others.

We want to have an inclusive atmosphere of ideas in which we
do not police each other’s thoughts and one in which we reason together without
intimidating words or actions. If a conflict arises it should, if possible, be
settled through democratic discussion or debate; otherwise, it should be
settled with the help of a Conflict Resolution Team, a Support Team, or both,
if necessary.

We are dedicated to reasoning about and resolving issues in our community including:
Discrimination based on Age, on Class, on Culture, on Disability,
on Experiences with the Justice System, on Gender, on Hetero-Normativity, on
Homo-Phobia, on Immigration Status, on Race, on Religious or Non-religious Intolerance,
on Trans-Phobia, and Discrimination based on Weight.
Adopted by Consensus 11-09-11

 

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Presenting The Awe-Inspiring Root 100!

BY VICTORIA TRAVERS

On Saturday Night Washington DC was pulsing with the heartbeat of 100 awe-inspiring, super-achieving mayors, policymakers, musicians and media stars, as they gathered at the Andrew W. Mellon Auditorium to celebrate The Root 100 awards 2011. Founded in 2008, The Root is a unique online news publication that offers an African-American perspective on breaking news and aims to raise the profile of the black voice in mainstream media.

Donna L. Byrd, publisher of The Root, in her opening remarks referred to the honorees as the “all-stars of our community’ and judging by the line-up she was not wrong. The list included NAACP President Benjamin Todd Jealous and executive producer of Black Girls Rock, Beverly Bond, both of whom made touching and inspirational speeches. Jealous urged listeners remember the responsibility we all have to speak for those who have no voice,” and Bond told the audience:

“As the most influential of our generation, we must be the frontrunners for change.”

So here’s a huge Hollaback! congratulations to such an awesome cohort of change makers and leaders. You inspire us.

Meet the full list of honorees here!

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Governor Scott Walker and the Trojan Horse Protest

BY VICTORIA TRAVERS
It is truly awesome to see the creative ways in which activists are making themselves heard! Case in question: Governor Scott Walker and the Trojan Horse breakfast protest.

Last Thursday controversial Wisconsin Governor Scott Walker was shouted into silence by protesters posing as suits as he attempted to give a budget speech at the Chicago Union League Club.

Over 70 members of Stand Up! Chicago and Occupy Chicago ambushed the 11/3 Walker breakfast presentation on “Taxpayers, State Budget Reforms and the New Realities” at the Union League Club of Chicago in order to voice their opinions on Governor Walker’s union-busting and job-cut policies.

Protesters settled themselves down to breakfast and sprang into action following the opening remarks, using what they have dubbed as the “human mic.” The statement began:

“ It is an outrage and a shame, that we sit at this fancy breakfast to listen to someone who has wreaked havoc on the lives of working families. Governor Walker has vilified unions and insulted the 99% who depend on living wages and adequate benefits to support their families, while on the payroll of the right wing billionaire Koch brothers.”

After each statement the crowd repeated it, rendering the remainder of the room speechless. Walker encouraged his supporters to clap out the disruption but the protest continued, forcing the rest of the room to listen.

Check out the video for yourself and be inspired to make your voice heard and be a change maker!

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Hero DeJesus Proves We DO Have the Power to End Street Harassment!

BY VICTORIA TRAVERS

Inspirational and Badass Shyane DeJesus

Brave anthropology student, Shyane DeJesus, hit headlines last week when she fought back against 39-year-old, subway sex pest, Froylan Andrade. DeJesus was groped by Andrade on the 6 platform at Union Square at 9.30 am on October 23. In utter disgust, she punched him with her left hand. Andrade fled onto the train and sat down as if nothing had happened. However, DeJesus was not about to let him get away with this, she followed him and kicked him in the face, she then took his picture as fellow passengers ignored her plight.

And the wonderful thing is that her efforts were not in vain! Once she had the precious picture she got to her office and called the police. According to the NY Post the NYPD were tipped off by Andrade’s brother who recognized the photo and gave them his address. Andrade was arrested and positively identified by courageous DeJesus.

Dejesus’ message to the world is:

“Don’t let them scare you: they are cowards!”

Hopefully this wonderful young lady will give others the courage to find their own voice and say NO to street harassment!

 

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Harassment at School: Not Cool

BY ANNIE BOGGS

A depressing new study shows that sexual harassment starts at a disturbingly early age — middle and high school. The American Association of University Women’s report, Crossing the Line: Sexual Harassment at School, shows that harassment is widespread in grades 7-12 for our nation’s students. According to the study summary:

 Sexual harassment is part of everyday life in middle and high schools. Nearly half (48 percent) of the students surveyed experienced some form of sexual harassment in the 2010–11 school year, and the majority of those students (87 percent) said it had a negative effect on them.

Unsurprisingly, the harassment  had gendered implications. Girls were more likely than boys to experience harassment and be negatively affected by the harassment. Boys were more likely than girls be the harasser. Comments like “That’s so gay” contributed to a culture at school where students who didn’t follow gender norms were especially targeted. (I think this antiquated sentiment needs to be retired already!)

With statistics such as these, it’s easy to feel hopeless. But perhaps we should take these numbers as a call to action and start teaching students early that this is not OK behavior. According to one of the authors of the report, Holly Kearl, in this New York Times piece, an open dialogue in schools about sexual harassment (what it is and how to react to it) is helpful in reducing it.

This seems like an easy step to take. Teenagers should know: this is not acceptable or “just part of the school day” in middle or high school, like so many young people are led to believe. Internalizing harassment as normal behavior for young people leads to similar (and worse) behavior later in life. Hollaback! and let your schools and communities know that this is never OK.

P.S. Here is some helpful, specific information on what to do if you’re being harassed in a school setting.

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Everyone has the Right to Occupy Space, Safely

This was originally posted on occupywallst.org.

For as long as public space has existed, women and LGBTQ people have been trying to “occupy” it safely — with distressingly little success. Harassing comments, groping, flashing and assault are a daily, global reality for women and LGBTQ individuals. Too often, these injustices are met with little or no response, regarded simply as “the price you pay” for being female, trans, or gay in public. As supporters of the Occupy movement, we believe that a world where everyone has the right to occupy public space safely is not only possible – it is essential to building a strong and lasting movement.

It’s no secret that the Wall Street 1% who wrecked our economy are disproportionately straight and male, despite countless studies showing the less organizations look like the 99%, the less effective they are. As we quicken the pace of social change, we must be careful not to replicate Wall Street’s mistakes. The message is clear: equality means impact.

But for women and LGBTQ people to participate equally in the Occupy movement, we must be safe in occupied spaces. We know that harassment and assault happens everywhere — and that the Occupy movement is no more immune to it than our nation’s parks and parking lots — but we also know that a movement where women and LGBTQ individuals are not safe is not a movement that serves the interests of the 99%.

In solidarity with those who are already working on the ground to make safer spaces, we call on all General Assemblies of the Occupy movement to adopt anti-harassment and anti-assault as core principles of solidarity. To realize these principles within the movement, we call on General Assemblies in every city to empower women and LGBTQ occupiers with the time, space, and resources necessary to ensure that every occupied space is a safe space.

 

Co-signed by:

The following Occupy Sites:
Occupy LA! and the The Occupy Los Angeles Queer Affinity Group
Occupy Vermont
Occupy Gloucester (Maine)
Occupy Houston

 

And the following organizations:
OccupyWallSt.org
The Occupied Wall Street Journal
Hollaback!
BITCH media
DC Rape Crisis Center
Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault
National Organization for Men Against Sexism
Feministing
California Coalition Against Sexual Assault
The Feminist Wire
Barrier Free Living
Crisis Intervention Services, Oskaloosa, IA
Women, Action & the Media
Occupy Patriarchy
Marriage Equality NY
Safe Slope
Joy of Resistance: Multicultural Feminist Radio @ WBAI
Feminist Peace Network
Women In Media & News
Spark
Fem2.0
Talkin’ Reckless
The Organization for a Free Society
Julia Barry Productions
Women’s Media Center
SisterSong NYC
MADRE
AF3IRM NY/NJ
AIDS Action Baltimore
Media Equity Collaborative
Veterans News Now
National Organization of Asian Pacific Islanders Ending Sexual Violence
Colorado Coalition Against Sexual Assault (CCASA)
Spinifex Press, Australia
Ms. Magazine
Women’s Institute for Freedom of the Press (WIFP)
CODEPINK: Women For Peace
Women Occupy
Bitch Flicks
Center for the Human Rights of Users and Survivors of Psychiatry
Students Active for Ending Rape (SAFER)
Anti-State STL
World Can’t Wait
1% A Peace Army
9to5, National Association of Working Women

 

If your organization supports this call for safer spaces, please email saferspace@occupywallst.org or emily@ihollaback.org to be added to the list of co-signers. If you know other groups that have not yet joined this call to action, please contact them and ask them to stand with us! Let’s work together to make a safer world for everyone!

 

UPDATE! Thanks to our site leader in Mexico DF, we now have a Spanish translation!

Durante el tiempo en que el espacio público ha existido, las mujeres y las personas LGBT han tratado de “ocuparlo” de manera segura – preocupantemente con muy poco éxito. Los comentarios de acoso, los tocamientos, la exposición de genitales y la violación son una realidad cotidiana y global para las mujeres y las personas LGBT. Con demasiada frecuencia, estas injusticias se atienden con poca o ninguna respuesta, consideradas simplemente como “el precio a pagar” por ser mujer, trans o gay en público. Como partidarios del movimiento “Ocupa”, creemos que un mundo donde todas las personas tienen derecho a ocupar el espacio público con seguridad no sólo es posible – si no que es esencial para construir un movimiento fuerte y duradero.
No es ningún secreto que el 1% de Wall Street que destruyó nuestra economía es de manera desproporcionada heterosexual y masculina, a pesar de numerosos estudios que demuestran las organizaciones que menos reflejan al 99%, tienen menor eficacia. A medida que aceleramos el ritmo del cambio social, debemos tener cuidado de no repetir los errores de Wall Street. El mensaje es claro: equidad significa impacto.

Pero para que las mujeres y las personas LGBT puedan participar igualitariamente en el movimiento “Ocupa”, debemos estar seguros y seguras en los espacios ocupados. Sabemos que el acoso y las violaciones ocurren en todas partes — y que el movimiento “Ocupa” no es más inmune a él que los parques y estacionamientos de nuestra nación — pero también sabemos que un movimiento donde las mujeres y las personas LGBT no están seguras no es un movimiento sirve a los intereses del 99%.

En solidaridad con quienes ya están trabajando en cada movilización para crear espacios más seguros, Hollaback Internacional en conjunto con otras 25+ organizaciones está haciendo un llamado a todas las Asambleas Generales del Movimiento “Ocupa” a adoptar principios básicos de solidaridad de anti-acoso y anti-abuso. Para hacer realidad estos principios dentro del movimiento, hacemos un llamado a las Asambleas Generales en cada ciudad para empoderar a las mujeres y los y las ocupantes LGBT con el tiempo, el espacio y los recursos necesarios para asegurar que cada espacio ocupado sea un lugar seguro.

Si tu organización apoya la convocatoria de los espacios más seguros, por favor, envía un correo electrónico a saferspace@occupywallst.org o a emily@ihollaback.org para que se te añada a la lista de firmantes. Si conoces a otros grupos que aún no se han sumado a este llamado a la acción, por favor ponte en contacto con ellos y pídeles que se unan a nosotrxs. ¡Vamos a trabajar juntxs para hacer un mundo más seguro para todxs!

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